When I was a young driver, my fiancé took on the daunting task of teaching me to drive a standard transmission in the Volkswagen I had just purchased. Most of it was learning to trust the rhythm found in changing between the gas and clutch and moving the gearshift appropriately. All seemed well as I settled into an easy comfort of moving from first gear to second, then third and at times going full speed in fourth. That is until I encountered stoplights or hills. It was at this point that I learned about downshifting. Approaching a stoplight brought a need to slow down in order to arrive at the signal at an appropriate pace where I would either stop and wait for the green light to go ahead, or make a direction change by turning right or left. On hills, I was able to downshift so that the car’s breaking system didn’t take too much of the load. Once on level ground I would begin moving ahead as before.
Recently, I’ve learned how this concept of downshifting applies to other areas of life as well. In fact, it’s a reference to a cultural movement that has some interesting parallels. To be more specific, when one becomes intentional about downshifting in life, there is a conscious decision made to slow down and invest more time and energy in food, family, and the place one lives. It’s about paying attention to what gear we are operating in and the speed at which we are traveling through life. When one downshifts, one strives to restore balance at work and play, as well as in the spiritual, physical and social realms of life. (http://www.slowmovement.com/downshifting.php)
Given our exhaustion levels this may sound appealing, but it is no easy task, as everything in life seems to scream at us to do more, be more, buy more, and go more. Despite the fact that we yearn for something different, we repeatedly find ourselves screeching up to the stoplight at the end of the day, falling into bed exhausted from the day’s pace. No wonder we feel so conflicted. We aren’t living the lives we really want, yet can’t seem to find a way to slow the car down.
There are a few folks who are shining light on the path, however and helping us learn how to slow down in ways that allow us to reconnect with what matters most. In fact, the principles and practices of slow living are finding expression through many avenues such as food, travel, city identities, money, even church. While not much press has been given to it, Slow Church is undoubtedly a movement whose time has come and one that many are curious about. Yet, describing Slow Church is difficult because it is so experiential. What it offers is a different way of gathering as God’s people, one that makes time to enjoy the gifts of life such as community, food, the environment and conversation, usually unfolding in organic ways. Woven into this way of being are song, readings, prayer, and new expressions of liturgy.
I’ve been lucky enough to connect with several different kinds of Slow Church communities springing up in my city where I find a welcome and inclusion. I’ll bet if you begin looking for them, you will find them coming to life where you are as well. Not all label themselves in these ways, but they are an interesting segment of this new missional church identity that is arising among us. I hope to blog from time to time with stories of what is going on in these communities and hope you’ll have stories to share as well. Life holds many hills and stoplights. Maybe we all could use some practice at downshifting as we maneuver through our days on this planet.
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Comment by John E. Smith on October 16, 2011 at 9:59pm Hi, Christy
Appreciate the additional thoughts. I can relate to your comments about the value of eating in, because we have been experiencing much the same in connection with a diet that my wife and I have been following. I now cook much more than before and have found it to be pleasurable. WHile we still enjoy the occasional meal out, where we sit and talk while someone else does the work, much can be said for engaging in the process of preparing a meal.
I think of films like "Soul Food" where so much of the action revolved around communal meals and the fascinating dynamics of those situations.
... and to think my parents did this most of their lives and never told me how much fun it was:).
Comment by Christy Moore on October 11, 2011 at 9:03pm Hi John,
Thanks for your response and I agree wholeheartedly! It is very difficult to live at a slower pace while the world continues to spin at top speed around us. Yet, we can all make changes in the areas of life over which we do have control that can help. For instance, in my own life, I'm working to break the habit of dining out so much. It's a slow process (slow living comes through slow change) but by choosing to take the time to cook versus consuming meals from an endless stream of restaurants and fast food places, I am able to reconnect with the source of my food, live more simply by spending less money and gain more time for relationships found in cooking with my family and friends.
The idea of Slow Church requires slow change as well. Teaching ourselves new ways of being and making decisions that favor developing relationships over the fast food of streamlined worship services and consumer driven programs isn't easy and can't happen overnight. But, just as I've learned through the changes in my cooking and dining habits, slowing down and being more intentional about reconnecting to what matters most creates space for the Holy to be discovered in new and unexpected ways.
Christy
Comment by John E. Smith on October 8, 2011 at 7:56pm Hi, Christie - fascinating concept.
My first thought as I read about the "slow church" was that it sounds wonderful, but how do we get the world to slow down, so we can stay engaged with our daily lives. Slowing down during a retreat weekend is one thing, but living slower, while very attractive, is difficult to do when the non-controllable parts of our lives continue on at full speed.
My radar is now on for signs of "slow churches" and I look forward to hearing more from you about this.
John
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